Shreyashi writes · June 18, 2023 0

Liberating Myself from Cinderella’s Mirage

In the tapestry of my life, there was a time when I wholeheartedly believed in the enchanting tale of Cinderella. As an astonished child, I was captivated by the story of a young girl who overcame difficulty and found her happily ever after. I yearned for my own fairy tale ending, just like hers. But as I grew up and gained a deeper understanding of my surrounding, I began to question the underlying messages embedded within Cinderella’s story. It became clear to me that Cinderella is a narrative that conserves the notion that a woman’s identity is shaped solely by societal expectations and the acceptance of a man. It fails to embrace the concept of female independence and empowerment.

Over time, I could no longer ignore the inconsistencies that existed within Cinderella’s story. Why did Cinderella feel the need to adapt and change herself to fit into those stunning glass slippers? Why was her worth so closely tied to a prince’s recognition and validation? These questions ignited a blaze within me, prompting a deep introspection and a desire to challenge the limiting beliefs imposed upon women.

One aspect that troubled me was Cinderella’s physical transformation, which played a key role in her story. It emphasized the significance placed on external beauty and continued the harmful notion that a woman’s worth is determined solely by her physical appearance. This narrative supports society’s pressures to adhere to narrow beauty standards, hindering the worth of a woman’s inherent value beyond her looks. I realized it is high time to beat these restrictions and embrace our true identities.

Likewise, Cinderella’s story propagated the belief that a woman’s happiness and fulfilment revolve solely around finding a prince to save her. However, I have come to understand that authentic relationships are built on mutual respect, equality, and the acceptance of one another’s true selves. I now seek partnerships that celebrate my individuality, cherishing me for who I am rather than whom I am expected to be. I no longer want to wait for someone to hand me the key to my dreams; instead, I have taken charge of my own destiny. True empowerment, I have discovered, originates from within – it comes from believing in my own abilities and trusting my intuition.

We, as women, are the authors of our own stories. We possess the capability to achieve greatness and create our own happily ever after on our own terms. So, let us free ourselves from the confines of Cinderella’s story and rewrite our own narratives that celebrate our strength, resilience, and unwavering independence.